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Posted on Aug 11th, 2008 by mel : Serenity mel
The most important trip you may take in life is meeting people halfway.  ~Henry Boye

I soon realized that no journey carries one far unless, as it extends into the world around us, it goes an equal distance into the world within.  ~Lillian Smith

Highlights from my recent trip to the Pacific Northwest -

Salt Spring Island - a Buddhist Lama once said that there was good energy there.  I think he was right.

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- the ferries - we took about 10 ferries, I could ride on them all day - very soothing - good for meditation.


 - San Juan Island - whale watching - saw whales, kayaking - saw seals, Shakespeare in the Park - Tempest


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 - Seattle Art Museum






- Eight Limbs Yoga - Seattle
http://www.8limbsyoga.com/namaste.htm


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Mandalas

Posted on Jun 24th, 2008 by mel : Serenity mel




My kid's yoga class and I have become intrigued with Mandalas.  The whole thing started as an enrichment activity.  My class is part of summer school, and is two hours.  Two hours is a long time to do yoga with kids, so I've infused story telling, art, and discussion of the yamas and niyamas to the class.  We simple began by coloring some mandalas.  We found it was easy to color mindfully, because of the symetrical patterns.  We then did a mandala meditation.  One girl said that she visualized sending her mandala to all the people she meets.  We then looked at pictures of Tibetan monks making sand mandalas.  After those mandalas are completed, the monks simply sweep the sand back together, and place the sand back in the river, as a meditation on impermanace.  We were all amazed by this, but none of us has been able to tear up our mandalas just yet.






More mandala information from Wikipedia -

Mandala (Sanskrit maṇḍala मंड "essence" + ल "having" or "containing". It is also often translated as "circle-circumference" or "completion", both derived from the Tibetan term dkyil khor)[1] is a term used to refer to various objects. It is of Hindu origin[citation needed], but is also used in other Indian religions, such as Buddhism. In the Tibetan branch of Vajrayana Buddhism, they have been developed into sandpainting. In practice, mandala has become a generic term for any plan, chart or geometric pattern that represents the cosmos metaphysically or symbolically, a microcosm of the Universe from the human perspective.

In various spiritual traditions, mandalas may be employed for focusing attention of aspirants and adepts, a spiritual teaching tool, for establishing a sacred space and as an aid to meditation and trance induction. Its symbolic nature can help one "to access progressively deeper levels of the unconscious, ultimately assisting the meditator to experience a mystical sense of oneness with the ultimate unity from which the cosmos in all its manifold forms arises." [2] The psychoanalyst Carl Jung saw the mandala as "a representation of the unconscious self,"[3] and believed his paintings of mandalas enabled him to identify emotional disorders and work towards wholeness in personality



 


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Goofy, Sexy, Acceptance

Posted on May 26th, 2008 by mel : Serenity mel
 

You may have noticed my new pictures.  They are my exercise in authenticity and acceptance.  You see, like many women, I struggle with being comfortable about my appearance.  I've not had to deal with weight issues, and find my body to be even, well, sexy from time to time.  I have issues with my face, though.  I don't have the type of face that would be considered "textbook pretty".  I find my face to be, well, goofy looking.


So, if I'm feeling this discomfort, why post my pictures to the World Wide Web?? Why post this blog??  I'd like to say that I've become totally accepting, and see the inner beauty, yada yada, and make this a feel good blog, but I want to be authentic.  I look in the mirror, look at pictures of myself, and the criticism begins.  In the last year or two, the age process has started to set in, as well.  If I couldn't accept my appearance in my youth, how am I going to accept it in its decline?  I've been around aging, cancer, the look of mental health issues, and could see the beauty in them.  Why is it so hard to see beauty in myself?


I recently heard someone say that authenticity is your soul coming through.  I can see the beauty in that.

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A Walk to Beautiful

Posted on May 13th, 2008 by mel : Serenity mel
I find it ironic that on the day that I taught Human Growth and Devolpment to my fifth graders, that I also watched a film called "A Walk to Beautiful".  I find it hard to believe that in this day and age, girls and women in other parts of the world have to endure needless emotional and physcial suffering due to lack of education and health care.

A Walk to Beautiful Trailer




From the website -
http://www.walktobeautiful.com/

What Is Obstetric Fistula?

The World Health Organization has called fistula "the single most dramatic aftermath of neglected childbirth", estimating that more than 2 million women live with fistula worldwide. But, it fears even this number may be a gross underestimate.

Short of death, the most devastating effect of neglected childbirth is obstetric fistula, a hole that forms between the vagina and the bladder or rectum during prolonged, obstructed labor. This horrific injury leaves victims incontinent. Some develop nerve damage in the feet and legs.

The Fistula Hospital in Ethiopia has treated more than 32,000 women with obstetric Fistula. Learn more about obstetric fistula or the work of the Fistula Hospital.

What Happens to Women Afflicted with Obstetric Fistula?

If the misery of uncontrolled leaking of urine (and sometimes feces) isn't enough, these women and girls are ostracized and disdained by their families and communities. Without being cured, women with fistula commonly spend the remaining years of their lives in shame and isolation, literally waiting to die.

How Is Obstetric Fistula Treated?

Obstetric fistula is almost entirely preventable. Women in the affected regions worldwide must gain access to doctors and medical facilities that can intervene when complications occur. Those who do not have access during childbirth must have ways to seek treatment, which is usually a surgical procedure.

Who Is Most Vulnerable to Obstetric Fistula?

Eradicated in developed countries at the end of the 19th century when cesarean section became widely available, obstetric fistula still plagues women throughout the developing world, specifically in parts of Africa, India, Bangladesh, Afghanistan, Pakistan, and Nepal. It is estimated that there are 100,000 new cases each year, but the international capacity to treat obstetric fistula is limited to only 6,500 per year.

Fast Facts

  • For every woman who dies from pregnancy-related complications, 20 women survive but experience terrible injuries and disabilities.
  • In Ethiopia, there are 59 OB/GYNs and 1,000 midwives for a population of 77 million.
  • One woman dies from pregnancy-related complications every minute worldwide; 95% of them live in Africa and Asia.
  • More than 99% of The Fistula Hospital patients are illiterate. (The hospital teaches all patients the Amharic Fideles and the Oromiyffa alphabets.)
  • Number of patients treated at the Addis Ababa Fistula Hospital every year: 1,200
  • Number of obstetric fistula cases occurring in Ethiopia alone each year: 9,000
  • Number of new obstetric fistula cases resulting from childbirth occurring worldwide each year: 100,000
  • Number of new obstetric fistula cases resulting from childbirth occurring in the U.S. each year: 0
  • The year the last U.S. hospital treating fistula patients closed its doors: 1895.

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hoops and yoyo

Posted on Apr 15th, 2008 by mel : Serenity mel

I can tend to be on the serious side, as I suppose many of us here can be...

However, I do have a silly side.

One thing that cracks me up is hoops and yoyo -



hoops&yoyo Campfire Stories, Episode 1




 

hoops&yoyo Campfire Stories Episode Two

 

hoops&yoyo Campfire Series, Episode Three



Check out more at  http://www.hallmark.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/article%7C10001%7C10051%7C/HallmarkSite/hoops_yoyohome/HOOPS_YOYO_HOME_PAGE?landingPage=hoopsandyoyo&hostName=www.hoopsandyoyo.com
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Jason Mraz

Posted on Feb 24th, 2008 by mel : Serenity mel
I'm on a Jason Mraz kick this weekend.  Here are two great songs: 

"God Rests in Reason " is Based on a Kahil Gibran poem.
Jason Mraz - "God Moves Through You"

Here are they words if you can't read them above -
adapted from "the prophet" by kahlil gibran
lyrics by kahlil gibran and jason mraz

you were born together
and together ye shall be forever
until death should scatter
it wouldn't matter in the memory of God above
let the wind of heaven dance between you too
allow the space and time to bring you closer to everlasting love
cause God moves
what do you do
God moves through you

when love beckons
his ways are often hard and steep
when his wings enfold
ye yield to all he speaks
the sword it might be hidden there among his pinions
oh you may wear a wound that truly spoke to you
believe in all that voice and follow through
follow so on and on

what do you do when God moves through you
what do you do
say i do
i do

just remember love possesses nothing
nor would it ever be possessed
oh love is love sufficient unto love
and you can figure out the rest

your children will not be your children
they are the daughters and the son of a beginning
they'll come through your womb but not be coming from you
they will be with you but do not belong to you
you may give them your love but not your thoughts
then they'll arrive with their own hearts
they're the coming of angels this blessed season
and then they'll sing oh how God rests in reason
God rests in reason

so what do you do
ooh when God moves through you
what do you do
say i do
i do

think not you can direct the course of
love itself directs the course allowed
believe not God is in your heart, child
but rather you're in the heart of God

what do you do
say i do
i do
i do

think not you can direct the course of
love itselfs directs the course allowed
believe not God is in your heart, child
but rather you're in the heart of God

what do you do
ooh when God moves through youremember God rests in reason
Jason Mraz - I'm Yours



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The Girl in the Cafe

Posted on Nov 22nd, 2007 by mel : Serenity mel

I have another movie recommendation -

"The Girl in the Cafe" - great!

It's the story of one of the G8 Summits/Aid to Africa

Dinner Scene

 

It inspired me to sign the ONE declaration.  Check it out!

http://action.one.org/
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John William Waterhouse

Posted on Nov 22nd, 2007 by mel : Serenity mel
Some of you may have noticed that my ever changing icon/avatar includes many of the images of John William Waterhouse.  The work of Waterhouse has become an interest/obsession over the last year.  It probably ties to my recent interest in archetypes. 
(check out -  http://pods.zaadz.com/archetype )

Waterhouse painted in the late 1800's.   He painted classical, historical, and literary subjects.  For more information about Waterhouse - visit -

http://www.johnwilliamwaterhouse.com/index.php
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A Peaceful Classroom Begins with a Peaceful Teacher - Part Two

Posted on Jul 25th, 2007 by mel : Serenity mel
A Peaceful Classroom Begins with a Peaceful Teacher - Part Two

After Winter Break, things started to fall into place, although it wasn't until Spring that I realized just how far we had come. I can't say that I was doing much more integration of yoga lessons into the school day. However, I was focusing on yoga more in my life. I began to focus more on studying and using the Yamas and Niyamas in my life, not just my yoga practice.

http://www.yoga.net.au/relevance


In the classroom, I was able to simplify and surrender. At home I focused on contentment and self-study. Some of the self-study included reading Tree of Yoga - Iyengar and "Yoga Journal" magazine.

© 2007 Shambhala Publications


http://www.yogajournal.com/


The use of technology was integrated, as well. I listened to the "Hip Tranquil Chick" podcasts, participated to discussions on Zaadz.com, and started taking classes downloaded from YogaToday.com.

http://hiptranquilchick.com/podcastblog.html

http://www.zaadz.com/

http://www.yogatoday.com/


I also attended the Yoga Journal conference at Lake Geneva. There I went to workshops with Gumurkh Kaur Khalsa, Sean Corn, and Leah Kalish. All of these activities opened new avenues and awareness, inspired me, and helped me bring more peace into my life.
http://goldenbridgeyoga.com/

http://www.seanecorn.com/

http://www.yogaed.com/html/press-gaiam.html

Ahimsa
At this point I became interested in integrating more peace, or ahimsa (non-violence) into my life and classroom. I had read two great articles in the "Shambhala Sun" about contemplative education and social emotional learning. These topics are of interest to the Dalai Lama, as well, I learned.

http://www.shambhalasun.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3023&Itemid=243ww.shambhalasun.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3023&Itemid=243

http://www.shambhalasun.com/index.php

From a contact I made through Zaadz, I was introduced to the Peace Registry. The Peace Registry is a continually growing database of organizations and individuals all over the world who promote and act in accordance with principles of peace, nonviolence, compassion, and inclusion.

http://www.peacealliancefound.org/content/blogsection/28/92/

Through the Peace Registry, I was introduced to a great book for children titled Ten Amazing People and How They Changed the World. It is a collection of biographies of people like Gandhi, Mother Theresa, and Thich Naht Hanh. As biographies are a genre we are required to work with in fifth grade, I decided to go with a choice of "peaceful" people. Besides 10 Amazing People, I used biographies about Martin Luther King Jr. and Rosa Parks. We discussed various life skills that these people used, and how they could use those same skills in their lives. These skills are similar to the Yamas and Niyamas, and also to the 21st Century skills recently adopted by the state of Wisconsin. Students then picked a biography of their choice, and wrote a paper about the life skills used by the person in their chosen biography.

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At the same time I was expanding my view of ahimsa. I was extremely fortunate to see the Dalai Lama speak.  His smile, as well as him message, just exudes peace.
http://www.dalailama.com/


Around this time, I also read Three Cups of Tea, and watched a documentary called Born into Brothels. The people in both of these real life stories are truly using Ahimsa and the other Yamas and Niyamas in their lives; using them to help others.


http://www.kids-with-cameras.org/bornintobrothels/

http://www.threecupsoftea.com/


At this point I began to think that I should be doing something "bigger". Maybe I should volunteer for some humanitarian effort, possibly working with children in India.
...then I remembered how freaked out I get when I get a mouse in my condo.
 ...I remembered how I get irritated with my mother when she is being, well, motherly.
...I remembered how I sometimes want to move at my pace in the classroom, and don't always listen to what the students are telling me.
 ...I remembered that I need to be at peace myself.
...I remembered to take a step back.
...I remembered that a Peaceful Classroom, begins with a Peaceful Teacher!
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A Peaceful Classroom Begins With a Peaceful Teacher Part One

Posted on Jul 25th, 2007 by mel : Serenity mel

Part One

Excitement

I was excited; I had just finished half of my yoga teacher training, and was leaving to do some of the home study and project work. http://www.feelyourbest.com/index.htm

I had decided that my work with kids as a fifth grade elementary school teacher would connect nicely with my newly found yoga skills. I had read a bit about Leah Kalish's work with Yoga Ed, and Marsha Wenig's work with YogaKids.

http://www.yogakids.com/marsha/

http://www.yogaed.com/html/press-gaiam.html

I had finished a brain based learning class, which supported movement, like yoga, throughout the school day. I had also purchased and read Creating the Peaceable Classroom which talked about using yoga, breath work, and even Feng Shui in the classroom.


Bothmer, Sandy. Creating the Peaceable Classroom. Chicago: Zephyr
Press, 2003.

Image - © Copyright 2007 Zephyr Press


From what I'd been told, this would be the class that could use it. This was the class I'd been hearing about since they were in kindergarten. The fourth grade teacher who had taught for twenty-five years said that this was the toughest group she ever had. I pushed those comments to the back of my mind. She didn't know - I was going to fix them - with yoga....


Reality

The first day of school arrived. I had set the stage to the best of my ability. There wasn't much Feng Shui desk arranging that could be done with twenty-eight desks, but I did have some soothing music playing. This was soon drowned out by twenty-eight very loud voices. The students were squirrelly as we did our first day activities, but I figured they would settle down as the week went on - They didn't!

I have vivid memories of that first math class. "Ok class; open your math books to page fourteen." A few kids started to get out their books, most kept talking. I repeated, "Open your math books to page fourteen." Slowly, students began to get their materials out, although I'm not sure if one girl ever got there. When it looked like everyone was ready, I began. A child proceeded to fall out of his chair. This was actually a common occurrence in the first weeks of school, and these kids weren't joking around. I proceeded to start again. "Wait, which page are we on?" came a voice. A few math problems in I asked for an answer and explanation. Ken, who had never really sat down, came running up to me, tugged at my sleeve, and said, "Well, you see it's like this..." This thirty minute lesson took sixty minutes. Exhausted by the math lesson, I thought I would pull out my first yoga break. I don't even remember what the pose was. All I remember was that it was a disaster. Kids were goofing around, falling into each other, and one may have even had to go to the health room.

As the first few weeks went by, it continued to be the same. Everything we did took twice as long as it should have. Yoga attempts failed, and along with the loss of academic time, yoga fell by the wayside. I can honestly say that in my fifteen years of teaching, I had never seen anything like it - a group so needy, a group so unable to focus. As I learned the students' backgrounds it became apparent why:

Ken - emotionally disturbed, severe ADHD, basically homeless, abusive father (the family fled half way through the year)

Greg - Aspergers (similar to autism)

John - from an immigrant family, still struggling with language

Sue - mother committed suicide when she was in second grade, dad was in jail

the other twenty-four - very active, with struggles of their own...

Take a Breath 
 
By November, I was exhausted. One night at home, I burst into tears. I can't do this all year, I thought. At that point, I just decided to focus on my own yoga practice for my own sanity. I let go of the need to push myself to achieve perfect postures, or do more difficult classes. I really started to listen to what my body and mind needed. My body and mind seemed to crave deep breathing, the holding of poses longer, and meditation. It was during one of these times of listening that it came to me that this is what my class needed. First they needed some deep breathing to slow themselves down. Then they needed some focusing activities.

I started with Belly Breathing and the Three Part Breath. We were taking the required standardized testing at the time, and the kids seemed to respond well to doing this before the tests. I then taught them the Equalizing Breath. In the long run, this became their favorite.

From there, I moved to focusing activities. The first one I tried came from Creating the Peaceable Classroom. The activity was called The Raisin Focusing Activity. The students basically were asked to eat their raisin, consciously. They were to really look at it, smell it, notice the texture, etc. This activity had limited success, as I got a lot of "I don't like raisins!" The next activity I call The Penguin. It was based on the idea of anchors that are used in meditation - breath, mantra, or a point in the body. The idea is to keep bringing our mind back to the anchor. I was already using a similar analogy in reading class. I tell the students that it is normal for a reader's mind to wander. A successful reader, however, consistently brings the mind back. Now, I decided to try a focusing activity. Basically, I gave the kids an anchor - a picture of a penguin on the overhead. Why a penguin, you ask? My students just loved penguins, so it also served as a community builder. The students were told to focus on the penguin, and that it was normal for their minds to wander. They were told to just gently bring it back. The students enjoyed this activity, and it seemed like a big eye-opener for them. From there, when I needed their attention for a longer activity, I would say that it was the same idea. It's Ok for you mind to wander, but to keep gently bringing it back...
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